I suppose that's true enough (if it's merely a label). If she's willing to go that far with the books, then yes, it might be appropriate to go through the healing process.
But not everyone knows, understands, or accepts that healing is a process, and many think of it in terms of the end result, not the journey to it. So, "look, they're fine" is more important to a lot of people than, "look, they can work through their problems caused by this major event."
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Date: 2008-02-02 09:40 pm (UTC)But not everyone knows, understands, or accepts that healing is a process, and many think of it in terms of the end result, not the journey to it. So, "look, they're fine" is more important to a lot of people than, "look, they can work through their problems caused by this major event."