I don't really need my aunt telling me I'm never going to find a guy for me if I don't accept that with my looks and characters, I just can't raise my expectations too high.

I can't believe I skipped over that the first time. If I can ever get my act together to come to Germany, I am so slapping your aunt. I would make suggestions for dealing with her, but I suspect you don't need them. Anyway, I think you're cute and smart and funny, and I'm convinced that your standards are appropriate. I bet if you were in Milwaukee, you'd have to carry a pistol to avoid meeting a decent feller.